In our modern Society the dream life is portrayed on television and social media as being carefree. Full of private yachts, exotic vacations celebrity, and shopping on a grand scale. I recently have been working orca journal called my best life and it revealed something to me. I had no I deal what my best life looked like! As a divorced single mom who comes from poverty but has had periods of prosperity in life I had several ideas of what I thought about my dream life, but the reality is I have changed and evolved. I do not desire the same things I desired at 29 or 25 or even 35. At 39 I am thinking of the days when I no longer have kids living at home what will my life look like then. I once said I wanted to live in Europe or some country other than the US for 3 months out of the year and just read books and relax. Now I am not so sure. I am sure however that the ” Best Life”. shown on tv is not my best life. I am a Realtor but I don’t want to live like the cat of Selling Sunset or any of the other Real Estate millionaire Shows. If I become a millionaire I don’t want any one to know. I don’t want to chase money til the end of my days and I definitely don’t want photographers or camera crews following me down the street. So what does you best life or my best life look like? It’s so personal a question even though we throw the term around lightly. I hope that you will invest in getting to know yourself better and design your best life.